Breaking the Silence is a Survival Memoir
Everybody deserves compassion and empathy – even those who cause unspeakable tragedy for the ones they leave behind.
Breaking the Silence
This is about a subject that is surprisingly taboo. I discovered this when looking for help after my father’s final act of taking his wife’s life before his own.
My survival memoir tells the story of growing up with a military Dad and how his multiple combat tours ultimately left him physically and mentally damaged. Our relationship was marred with estrangement, broken promises, and fleeting flecks of beauty and hope. Dad’s mental illness combined with generational and combat-related trauma often left me wondering if he loved me at all. While sifting through the evidence, I found the truth.
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Why I'M Writing The Book
A Story About
A Daughter's Love
I knew Dad was troubled, but as a child, in many ways, he was my hero and I looked up to him. Though children don’t always understand things, we can feel them.
Tragedy
Dad’s job included fighting for our country. Growing up, this meant long absences for him and frequent moves for our family. This would put a strain on anybody, but was worsened by mental health issues and alcoholism.
Survival
I am grateful to the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors, my support system, and the fellow survivors I’ve connected with along the way.
Writing and Resources
No one should go through this alone.
We Can Help
If you are a survivor of murder-suicide loss and would like to connect with another survivor, we can help.
You Can Help
If you are a nonprofit or can offer support to suicide loss survivors in your community, please reach out to discuss a partnership.
Reach Out Immediately
If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts or inclinations:
The Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, with prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones.